Hello my dear readers, can you believe February is already over? Time sure flies when you’re on the road having fun, right?
And well, now that the month of love is over, it’s time to reflect on one of the topics that is known for creating countless joy and sorrow: Dating a World Traveler. Have you ever done something as crazy as that? Worry not since I have something for you!
Thinking about what might happen tomorrow will only distract you from fully enjoying what’s right in front of your eyes. Yes, saying goodbye will be hard but that’s why saying hello should be more important in life.
Don’t take the other person for granted and cherish the present more than the future.
In my previous life as a player in Mexico, I used to make fake promises about wanting to date someone for real when I was only after a one-week stand. Traveling changed me since now I’m just straightforward with what I want and what I can promise. And trust me, this world traveler always keeps his word.
Honesty is key and you will be only shooting yourself in the foot if you decided to lie to people you want to get involved with. Tell the truth all the time and you’ll get far.
There are plenty of fish in the sea and well, every once in a while there’s nothing wrong with fishing for other type of meat if you know what I mean.
So hey, let’s assume you’re already on the road and you’re dating either a local or another world traveler. Where would you take them? Well, in my experience, locals love to explore the places they already love with world travellers since that way they can better connect and relate to each other.
If you’re both world travellers in a new city, then how about doing some touristy sightseeing together? Sure, you might not remember who is that blonde girl you were kissing at the Eiffel Tower but hey, there’s always a small chance that you will!
Speaking of which, in my experience as a world traveler, I have come to enjoy the little moments more than the grandiose ones. Sure, exploring the Swiss Mountains and the lakes was amazing, but nothing compared to the beauty of enjoying a glass of wine and watching the sunset in the company of one of the most amazing women I’ve ever met.
Don’t try to make everything special, just realise that everything already is special
As much as I wouldn’t like this to be true, the fact remains that not everyone is able to afford traveling the world like I do. And besides, not everyone wants to actually travel as much as I do. When I was younger, I saw it as a lack of love and I was hurt because of that. Now that I’m older and wiser, I have come to accept that all life choices should to be respected no matter what.
Don’t get hurt because the person you’ve been dating for a while doesn’t wants to travel with you, just go by yourself and enjoy the freedom that travel will give you
Life is a movie with as many sequels as you want them to exist. Some will have endings of sorrow and some will have endings of happiness but the bad times will never be able to negate the good ones. Never. Nothing last forever and it is wise to understand that everything ends in one-way or the other.
So what’s the best you can do when it comes to dating and travel? You can just enjoy life. Be yourself. Travel. Love. And keep moving forward.
article source: http://journeywonders.com/the-10-commandments-of-dating-and-travel/
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